Well, hello there! It's been awhile, hasn't it? I have been going through a lot of changes in my life lately - specifically in the last 3 weeks. So obviously, I didn't post a May or June recap about my progress towards my New Year's Resolutions, and that's because in May and June, there weren't a lot of updates to address. I fell off the weight loss bandwagon, I stopped reading and blogging about it (obviously), and I've been working the same job as I have been for the last 3 1/2 years. Boring, right?
Except let me just get real for a second. Because I just admitted I wasn't moving forward to any of my goals during the months of May and June. Which means I was either a) stagnating in my current position or b) digressing (moving away from my goals). And if I'm being honest, I'm gonna have to go with option number 2. I hardcore got off the healthy eating/exercise train and gained about 7 lbs. I started coming home and laying in bed watching Netflix by myself, because it's so much easier than trying to be productive in my life and my marriage. I started falling back into the old habits that defined me around last October when I realized I needed to begin making changes in my life.
Why is it so easy to go back to the "bad places" in your life when you start to progress toward the "good places"?
And because I was digressing, I began to get depressed. Something had to change. I'm going to be 30 this year, and I can't keep "waiting around" for my life to change in the ways I want it to - I need to start acting now.
So my goals are changing from what they were in December. Out with the old, in with the new.
1) Lose another 20 lbs by my birthday.
2) Finish paying off all debt (besides my student loans) by the end of this year.
3) Become more efficient at my new part-time job (more about that in an upcoming post).
4) Become more spiritually mature in my marriage (this is a very vague goal right now, because I'm not quite sure what this is going to look like, but I'll keep you posted).
So there are my new goals. I know, I know, I didn't mention anything about being a faithful blogger or writer, but right now, those things are on the back burner. I might dabble here and there (for fun), but I have so many other more important things to focus on.
Forward & progressing,
Yours Truly
ALL the thumbs ups for this! Proud of you for recognizing that you've digressed and then prioritizing and adapting your goals to continue moving forward! You da bomb!
ReplyDeleteThanks! You're such an encouragement, best friend! =)
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